By Emma Friesema | Hopedale DECA, MA
When I first joined DECA during my sophomore year, I never imagined I would one day stand on the ICDC stage. At the time, I absolutely hated public speaking. Presentations made me nervous, and even introducing myself in front of a group felt intimidating.
I joined DECA hoping to try something new, but I honestly never expected how much it would change me as both a student and a person. Like many DECA members, I started unsure of myself. I compared myself to people who seemed naturally confident and comfortable speaking in front of judges.
During my first year, simply making it to state competition felt like a huge accomplishment.
The next year, I made states again, but I still viewed ICDC as something that happened to other people, not me.
This year was different.
My team competed in PMFL and, after placing first at districts, advanced to the state competition. Even then, I tried not to get my hopes up too much.
Sitting in the audience during awards, hearing our names called for first place, honestly felt unreal. I remember looking at my teammates in complete shock because qualifying for ICDC was something I had only dreamed about, never something I thought could actually happen.
Getting to compete at ICDC was already more than I thought possible, but placing in the top 20 internationally made the experience even more unforgettable. While we unfortunately did not win glass, I could not have been more proud of my team and everything we accomplished together.
Looking around at thousands of students from across the world reminded me how special DECA really is. Every person there had worked hard, stepped outside their comfort zone and taken a chance on themselves.
What makes DECA meaningful is not just the awards or recognition. It is the growth that happens along the way.
DECA taught me how to communicate confidently, work as part of a team, think professionally and trust my own abilities. More importantly, it taught me that growth rarely happens when you stay comfortable.
I went from someone who dreaded presentations to someone who now actively seeks out opportunities that challenge me. That change did not happen overnight. It came from late-night practice sessions, failed role-plays, nervous presentations, supportive teammates, and learning that confidence is something you build over time.
I know many DECA members can relate to that feeling of self-doubt before a competition or presentation. It is easy to think you are not good enough or capable enough.
If there is one thing DECA taught me, it is that you are often capable of far more than you think.
As I graduate, I know the awards and medals will always be amazing memories, but the skills, friendships and confidence I gained through DECA are what I will value most. DECA gave me experiences I will never forget and lessons that I know I will carry with me long after high school.
To anyone reading this: if you’re unsure whether or not you should join DECA, take that chance and sign up. The experiences, skills and friends you will gain along the way will be something you’ll carry with you for the rest of your life!
